FalconsIn2012 35,202 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 To the Queen of TATF, just checking in with you and making sure all is well. I know it’s been a tough year, but you are thought of often and we miss you. I’ve seen you check in on occasion… Just making sure you’re good and smiling as often as you should be @Tandy Sportsman2593, falcndave, PokerSteve and 11 others 14 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
papachaz 18,046 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 I've seen her post in a few threads the last few days. But I'm with you, we need to check up on our sweet sister occasionally hope you're well Mrs Tandy!!! MoFalconsFan56, Lowndesfalc, PokerSteve and 3 others 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NWFALCON 3,913 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 I believe she was at the last game. I recall seeing a post about going since her husband was a huge fan of Roddy. gkgrimes, Borat, atlbaby and 7 others 10 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DonOfThemBirds 17,260 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 6 minutes ago, NWFALCON said: I believe she was at the last game. I recall seeing a post about going since her husband was a huge fan of Roddy. Yep FalconsIn2012 and Tandy 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FalconsIn2012 35,202 Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 14 minutes ago, NWFALCON said: I believe she was at the last game. I recall seeing a post about going since her husband was a huge fan of Roddy. Excellent Lowndesfalc and Tandy 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FalconsIn2012 35,202 Posted December 12, 2019 Author Share Posted December 12, 2019 There you are!!! I see you Mrs. T Tandy and papachaz 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BirdGangATL 769 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 She’s the best FalconsIn2012, papachaz and Tandy 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mattyicefalcon 4,536 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 @Tandy I miss losing bets with you....where are you??!! Tandy and FalconsIn2012 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Knight of God 52,674 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 She’s fine guys. She’s taking time to herself and healing. She same here this weekend, I’m sure she’ll be back soon. g-dawg, Tandy, papachaz and 1 other 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tandy 18,106 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 I'm hanging in there - and thank you so much for asking. I think if I can get through the holidays this year, I'll be ok. I was surprised at the game. I missed him there, for sure - and I swear I heard his voice next to me screaming Juuuu-li-oooo when he made that sideline catch and Rodd....yyyyy - when he was introduced at half-time. I turned to talk to him often and the reality would hit me again, but overall - I was able to enjoy the game, and found myself hoarse after the game as usual. The games will never be the same - we shared them so closely, but I still love them - and as I adjust more and more to the "new me", I think I'll be able to enjoy them even more. I'm going to the last home game of the season. DonOfThemBirds, mikeg272, HASHBROWN3 and 24 others 27 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
vabchbirdlover 1,526 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 Love you Tandy Tandy 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
HASHBROWN3 16,716 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 Love you Tandy... Now he’s celebrating with the angels! Praying for the joy of knowing that to fill your heart. Take care of yourself... FalconJim and Tandy 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kschreck 5,755 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 A great example for us all to be sure we find something we can enjoy with our loved ones and create special moments. Life gets so busy it's easy to forget. Much better to have lived it together and have such wonderful memories than to look back and wish things were different. Good to hear from you and thoughts and prayers are with you as you continue on this journey. Tandy and FalconsIn2012 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
FalconsIn2012 35,202 Posted December 12, 2019 Author Share Posted December 12, 2019 55 minutes ago, kschreck said: A great example for us all to be sure we find something we can enjoy with our loved ones and create special moments. Life gets so busy it's easy to forget. Much better to have lived it together and have such wonderful memories than to look back and wish things were different. Good to hear from you and thoughts and prayers are with you as you continue on this journey. Great point Tandy and papachaz 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
falcon1fan 741 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 Prayers coming your way ma'am. It's awesome that you were able to enjoy the game, even with a heavy heart. I lost my wife to cancer at 31 years old. She would watch with me every Sunday and said even though I'd scream at the TV, which she never understood, there was never anywhere else she wanted to be. I miss her everyday. I've learned to cope as much as possible. Take the time you need to heal is the best advice I can give. Cole World, mikeg272 and Tandy 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tandy 18,106 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 19 minutes ago, falcon1fan said: Prayers coming your way ma'am. It's awesome that you were able to enjoy the game, even with a heavy heart. I lost my wife to cancer at 31 years old. She would watch with me every Sunday and said even though I'd scream at the TV, which she never understood, there was never anywhere else she wanted to be. I miss her everyday. I've learned to cope as much as possible. Take the time you need to heal is the best advice I can give. My heart goes out to you. I don't know that I'll ever heal or stop hurting for him, but I'm learning to live without him and get through the day. I guess the price you pay for loving and being loved is the pain you feel when it's gone. I don't regret what we had - not one minute, but I'm paying for it now. There's a part of me that's glad he went first, because I would never want him to feel the pain I feel without him. That helps believe it or not. I remember thinking that I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with him, and I was angry about that, then someone reminded me that he spent the rest of his life with me - because he wanted to - and so - that's ok. He loved me enough to spend the rest of his life with me - now I have to wait the rest of my life to see him again. But - life goes on after they've gone - and we just have to learn to live without them - and without the us that they took with them. papachaz, Lowndesfalc and Cole World 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
falcon1fan 741 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 17 minutes ago, Tandy said: My heart goes out to you. I don't know that I'll ever heal or stop hurting for him, but I'm learning to live without him and get through the day. I guess the price you pay for loving and being loved is the pain you feel when it's gone. I don't regret what we had - not one minute, but I'm paying for it now. There's a part of me that's glad he went first, because I would never want him to feel the pain I feel without him. That helps believe it or not. I remember thinking that I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with him, and I was angry about that, then someone reminded me that he spent the rest of his life with me - because he wanted to - and so - that's ok. He loved me enough to spend the rest of his life with me - now I have to wait the rest of my life to see him again. But - life goes on after they've gone - and we just have to learn to live without them - and without the us that they took with them. Yes maam everyone told me it would get easier and I'm not sure it ever did, but sometimes I'll catch myself smiling thinking about her and it's been a little over 10 years already. Cherish the memories because I promise they will stay vivid. papachaz, Iron Saint, Tandy and 1 other 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
slamee101 7,143 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 Haven't been on the board for a while until a week or so ago. Clearly I've missed a lot. Good to see you were able to enjoy the game. Will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. papachaz and Tandy 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
g-dawg 42,258 Posted December 12, 2019 Share Posted December 12, 2019 Glad to see you back Mrs. Tandy! Tandy 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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