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nolove4thecrook

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I'm 33 married and my life is completely ******* boring. I used to party alot have a great time. The highlight of my day now is paying a bill. My sex life is trash,my wife could care less. I basically brought this up to her and she basically told me either deal with it or there's the door. Is this common??? Is it a prerequisite to have your sexlife to be in the dump at 33. I swear I'm about to blow my check on some prostitute and cocaine, im that ****n bored. Im so bored I think I know every draft prospect by name. Uggggh.

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No , if she says don't touch or hit the door I'd divorce the **** ..

I'm married also but we still bang . I'm out of town on business so I'm able to " blow off so steam " sometimes tho.

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No , if she says don't touch or hit the door I'd divorce the **** ..

I'm married also but we still bang . I'm out of town on business so I'm able to " blow off so steam " sometimes tho.

Well,its not that cut and dry...she'll let me hit it but it's like driving a ford focus it used to be like a mercedes...like she doing me a favor

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I've been married for over 40 years. I'ts something I've learned to deal with. As time flies by the excitement of the sex act fades. This is normal. While her drive has diminished, mine is strong. Men I believe, need it more often. I just go with the flow. Don,t do something stupid that you'll regret later. I occasionally get her to watch an "adult" video and this seems to rekindle her hormones. Other than that, I just remain patient.

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Very very true big dog! The adult thing ahhhhhh nahhh, I don't want her thinkin something I'm not anymore.....I would have a headache then man.

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I'm 33 married and my life is completely ******* boring. I used to party alot have a great time. The highlight of my day now is paying a bill. My sex life is trash,my wife could care less. I basically brought this up to her and she basically told me either deal with it or there's the door. Is this common??? Is it a prerequisite to have your sexlife to be in the dump at 33. I swear I'm about to blow my check on some prostitute and cocaine, im that ****n bored. Im so bored I think I know every draft prospect by name. Uggggh.

Have yall tried smoking herb together? Maybe playing some al green or marvin gaye? It can start off as a joke but then become serious with it and before you know it she will be in your hands.

Or you can pull a sharper and slip something in her drink. Whatever works just get that pink playa. Dont forget that you bring home the bacon so that pink should be yours day and night if thats what you need

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I've been married for over 40 years. I'ts something I've learned to deal with. As time flies by the excitement of the sex act fades. This is normal. While her drive has diminished, mine is strong. Men I believe, need it more often. I just go with the flow. Don,t do something stupid that you'll regret later. I occasionally get her to watch an "adult" video and this seems to rekindle her hormones. Other than that, I just remain patient.

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Or you can pull a sharper and slip something in her drink. Whatever works just get that pink playa. Dont forget that you bring home the bacon so that pink should be yours day and night if thats what you need

You sir are my hero.

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You should be watching the new show 'Married' and...we're older than y'all but if my wife's not in the mood, she always comes through with a handy. If your wife can't do that...you married a selfish woman and/or...she's just not that into you anymore :(

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You should be watching the new show 'Married' and...we're older than y'all but if my wife's not in the mood, she always comes through with a handy. If your wife can't do that...you married a selfish woman and/or...she's just not that into you anymore :(

Good to know the handy is ageless .

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First, try not to watch porn (or at least cut way back) because it ruins a lot of guy's sex lives. Wires your brain to not get turned on or feel satisfied by normal stuff.

Second, if all else fails, just start jacking off in front of her. It sounds crazy but she'll take the controls once its clear you're not stopping. Works every time if used sparingly.

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LMAO. This is one of the many reasons I'm not getting married or having children. Not sure why everyone feels this is something you're supposed to do with your life or else somehow you've "failed" or whatever.

Nothing is better than being able to do what the **** you wanna do when you wanna do it. Why people purposefully strap on leg irons is baffling to me. If you're into having a wife and kids that's awesome, but if you're not, do like I do and when people start pressuring you or asking when you're gonna get married, tell then to shut the **** up.

I'm deciding on moving to either Colorado or Oregon in the next 3 years. I'm just gonna throw the deuces up and hop in the truck because I can.

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I've been married for over 40 years. I'ts something I've learned to deal with. As time flies by the excitement of the sex act fades. This is normal. While her drive has diminished, mine is strong. Men I believe, need it more often. I just go with the flow. Don,t do something stupid that you'll regret later. I occasionally get her to watch an "adult" video and this seems to rekindle her hormones. Other than that, I just remain patient.

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Have yall tried smoking herb together? Maybe playing some al green or marvin gaye? It can start off as a joke but then become serious with it and before you know it she will be in your hands.

Or you can pull a sharper and slip something in her drink. Whatever works just get that pink playa. Dont forget that you bring home the bacon so that pink should be yours day and night if thats what you

I second this... Light up a fat one together and I promise you there won't be any lack of excitement or fun

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LMAO. This is one of the many reasons I'm not getting married or having children. Not sure why everyone feels this is something you're supposed to do with your life or else somehow you've "failed" or whatever.

Sorry man, but we've been put here to reproduce. That is the main goal of life. That is how our species survives.

On a more "human" note, finding someone great to share life with is very rewarding. Having kids is even more rewarding. Investing in other people's lives on that level takes effort and sacrifice. On the flip side, having no responsibilities is fun for awhile but that fun fades. Then your life is just shallow and lonely. It's like you're stuck in chapter 1 of a book that's supposed to be multiple chapters long.

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I don't care if the species survives.

And I agree that if you're into all the other stuff you said, that's cool but I'm just not. I've got a large family and very close-knit group of friends that I love sharing life with. Why would life be shallow and lonely? That's a pretty ****** thing to say to somebody. Your life might be shallow and lonely without a family, but that's a pretty big leap to just apply that across the board to everyone.

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Well I'll agree that there is no one way to live a life and it is to each of us to decide how to best live ours. I don't regret my decisions but I'm sure the same can be said of some who have made the opposite choices. If you've got a group of friends and family that you love and that love you, it sounds like you've got the most important stuff checked off to me.

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Sorry man, but we've been put here to reproduce. That is the main goal of life. That is how our species survives.

On a more "human" note, finding someone great to share life with is very rewarding. Having kids is even more rewarding. Investing in other people's lives on that level takes effort and sacrifice. On the flip side, having no responsibilities is fun for awhile but that fun fades. Then your life is just shallow and lonely. It's like you're stuck in chapter 1 of a book that's supposed to be multiple chapters long.

This is the most shallow minded opinion I have seen in quite some time. Human overpopulation is the biggest problem to the future of mankind as it is. Reproducing might be your main goal in life but sure as **** isn't mine along with many people.

I have no children and I assure you my life is not shallow or lonely. Plus it is really nice not to hear screaming kids or having your kid straight up lie to your face about who spilled the milk. Want to go out for the night? Well I don't need a babysitter and I don't spend a ton of cash paying for some children to watch Disney's latest crap instead of watching what I want to watch.

When I go on vacation, I go where I want to go without thinking twice about if the place is kid friendly.

The biggest plus to not having all these kids running around is the money plain and simple. You guys can say what you want about how money isn't everything but I am on pace to retire at 45 and there aren't many parents out there who can say this especially in this economy.

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nolove4thecrook I think I can give you some advice, ok. It sounds to me like you are stuck in a rut. Relationships never stand still...they either move forward or backward. Too far backward and you will get a failed marriage, ok. You....need to take the initiative and be proactive instead of reactive. Do three things...(1) do something that she has been wanting you to do, something she will notice. Might be as simple as cleaning something or...well you will know what. And don't stop doing it. (2) Buy her some flowers, and have them delivered to her at work. On the card keep it simple..."thinking of you" or something like that. (3) Pick a night, tell her not to make plans...then do something you never did before, something you know she will like. Plan it...take time to get it right...try to include like, a dinner. Maybe do something you know she enjoys or always wanted to do. Maybe something she doesn't ask you do because she knows you don't like it. Sacrifice for her, is what I am saying. Most of all, expect -nothing-...take what she is willing to give. You want to start a fire in your lady, well you have to start with a spark, then a flame, then a full blaze. And do all this over the period of a week. Marriage can be hard work but it can be fun when you reap the rewards, ok. Get out of the rut you two are in. ANd don't forget to feed the fire once in awhile...

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