Leon Troutsky 26,686 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 college is definitely a social experience. They don't have dorm rooms and force freshmen to live on campus for nothing. Have to be a balanceThey force freshmen to live on campus in order to make money off of them. It's the same reason they force freshmen to have meal plans. It's profit for the university. The purpose of college is not to get a social experience. It is to gain academic achievement and become educated. That there is a social experience is fine, but it is not the ultimate purpose.I agree with your other post, btw, that there is balance that is needed. Time management is a good skill to learn and college can give experience with that. But all things are secondary to the classroom. That's why athletics and clubs and so forth are called "extra-curricular" activities...they are extra or in addition to, not part of, the academics. The key is priorities. We're not telling this guy to live like a monk. We're simply making the point that academics come first and everything else second. Too many students prioritize the extra curricular and "fun" stuff above their classes. Unfortunately, a lot of them are able to do that and still graduate, but they're not learning the skills necessary for a job.Also, the old "it's not what you know but who you know" isn't very applicable these days. Employers are looking for people with skills and experience, not golfing buddies. Networking can open some doors for interviews, but if you can't do the job then friendships aren't going to keep you employed. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
youngbloodz 16,291 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 They force freshmen to live on campus in order to make money off of them. It's the same reason they force freshmen to have meal plans. It's profit for the university. The purpose of college is not to get a social experience. It is to gain academic achievement and become educated. That there is a social experience is fine, but it is not the ultimate purpose.I agree with your other post, btw, that there is balance that is needed. Time management is a good skill to learn and college can give experience with that. But all things are secondary to the classroom. That's why athletics and clubs and so forth are called "extra-curricular" activities...they are extra or in addition to, not part of, the academics. The key is priorities. We're not telling this guy to live like a monk. We're simply making the point that academics come first and everything else second. Too many students prioritize the extra curricular and "fun" stuff above their classes. Unfortunately, a lot of them are able to do that and still graduate, but they're not learning the skills necessary for a job.Also, the old "it's not what you know but who you know" isn't very applicable these days. Employers are looking for people with skills and experience, not golfing buddies. Networking can open some doors for interviews, but if you can't do the job then friendships aren't going to keep you employed.academics does come first. Have to understand the concepts of what your major is to do the job. Everything else is second. But college is a social experience. You really can't even argue that. You go to college to learn. And you don't just learn in the classroom. You learn things about yourself by interacting with others. That's why a lot of professors factor in class participation in your final grade. That's why they make you pair up for projects with people. Learning goes beyond the classroom. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Hoopah! 82,381 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 They force freshmen to live on campus in order to make money off of them. It's the same reason they force freshmen to have meal plans. It's profit for the university. The purpose of college is not to get a social experience. It is to gain academic achievement and become educated. That there is a social experience is fine, but it is not the ultimate purpose.I agree with your other post, btw, that there is balance that is needed. Time management is a good skill to learn and college can give experience with that. But all things are secondary to the classroom. That's why athletics and clubs and so forth are called "extra-curricular" activities...they are extra or in addition to, not part of, the academics. The key is priorities. We're not telling this guy to live like a monk. We're simply making the point that academics come first and everything else second. Too many students prioritize the extra curricular and "fun" stuff above their classes. Unfortunately, a lot of them are able to do that and still graduate, but they're not learning the skills necessary for a job.Also, the old "it's not what you know but who you know" isn't very applicable these days. Employers are looking for people with skills and experience, not golfing buddies. Networking can open some doors for interviews, but if you can't do the job then friendships aren't going to keep you employed.I never lived on campus, even as a freshman. In retrospect I wish that I would have for the first year, but I had no problem making friends. Living on campus was expensive. It wasn't as much as an apartment, but it wasn't too far off. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
falconstwopercentsized 3,291 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 Tell him about getting caught beating off in the shower cracworth Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Zodiac 858 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 Greek life is full of douchebags and all the other parties are in small as dorm rooms that suck.The parties suck, the hangovers suck, just go to class do you work, get a job if needed, make some friends and enjoy your downtime.The college experience is vastly overrated at smaller colleges. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
duncja 1,086 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 IF you can make it happen, buy your text books online and not from the college book store. At the end of the semester, sell them online, not to the college book store. Save yourself THOUSANDS over 4 years. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Hoopah! 82,381 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 Greek life is full of douchebags and all the other parties are in small as dorm rooms that suck.The parties suck, the hangovers suck, just go to class do you work, get a job if needed, make some friends and enjoy your downtime.The college experience is vastly overrated at smaller colleges.I had a large time at Auburn. IF you can make it happen, buy your text books online and not from the college book store. At the end of the semester, sell them online, not to the college book store. Save yourself THOUSANDS over 4 years.I didn't start doing this until law school unfortunately. I made enough from selling my books from the previous semester to cover the books for the next semester once or twice. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Leon Troutsky 26,686 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 academics does come first. Have to understand the concepts of what your major is to do the job. Everything else is second. But college is a social experience. You really can't even argue that. You go to college to learn. And you don't just learn in the classroom. You learn things about yourself by interacting with others. That's why a lot of professors factor in class participation in your final grade. That's why they make you pair up for projects with people. Learning goes beyond the classroom.You really have no idea what I do for a living, do you? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
duncja 1,086 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 You really have no idea what I do for a living, do you?You're a college professor aren't you? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
youngbloodz 16,291 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 You really have no idea what I do for a living, do you?no but if you are a professor than no wonder you feel the way you do. My girlfriend mom is a professor and I get lectured all the time cause her youngest son started college last year and I told him the samething. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Leon Troutsky 26,686 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 no but if you are a professor than no wonder you feel the way you do. My girlfriend mom is a professor and I get lectured all the time cause her youngest son started college last year and I told him the samething.I wasn't disagreeing with you so much as pointing out that you're lecturing me about what college professors do in the classroom. The purpose of college is not a social experience. That might be a nice side benefit, but it's not the core purpose. We seem to agree that academics comes first. I recognize the value of extra-curricular activities. The problem is that I see way too many students across the country putting the extra stuff first and the academics second. Unfortunately, the administration at large universities encourage this by emphasizing the "amenities arms race" - climbing walls, campus beautification, etc. - and creating incentives for students to de-prioritize their studies. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Toni Lo 12 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 College iz 4 suckaz. Dats y I went 2 Hopkins U. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Flip Flop 2,451 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 (edited) Treat school like its your job. Spend a solid eight hours a day focused on school work. This means go to class and study. When you study, find a good rhythm. I do a 15 min start up then a 15 minute break. After that, its 45 minutes of study and 5-15 minutes breaks. When you have put in you eight hours, clock out. Do something fun. Get up the next day and do it again. Take the weekends off if you are on schedule. The trick is to be productive while you are studying. I dont study in groups because I like to socialize too much. Im better on my own usually. A study group is good if it is short and organized. If you are like me, just study on your own and socialize when you are 'off the clock.' Do all of you reading and any work that you can early in the semester. Get plenty of rest and exercise. A tired mind with an out of shape body = an inefficient mind.When you are 'off the clock', remember this: This is the most easy access you will ever have to hot young college girls. Dont waste it. Edited August 12, 2013 by Flip Flop Quote Link to post Share on other sites
falconstwopercentsized 3,291 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 Wear sandals in the shower Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Googlywoogly 787 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 If you are lucky enough to have all expenses paid via scholarship, parents, money already saved, etc try to remember:This is the only time in your life that you will have the privileges of an adult, but the responsibilities of a child. You should savor every moment because 25 years from now you'll be saying "I can't believe its been 25 years", and "man those college years were the best." Quote Link to post Share on other sites
duncja 1,086 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Wear sandals in the showerOh that's a good one.Eat in the cafe. You've already paid for it, don't waste your money on fast food. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
duncja 1,086 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Rice is the most cost efficient "snack" to make in your dorm. Get some soy sauce, goes great with beer. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Goal Line D 2,787 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Rice ok but nothing more efficient than top ramen noodles. Get this op. All you gotta do is pass your classes, find your passion, have a ball, and get your **** on. Take advantage of the moment because this is your one and only time with it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
youngbloodz 16,291 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 I wasn't disagreeing with you so much as pointing out that you're lecturing me about what college professors do in the classroom. The purpose of college is not a social experience. That might be a nice side benefit, but it's not the core purpose. We seem to agree that academics comes first. I recognize the value of extra-curricular activities. The problem is that I see way too many students across the country putting the extra stuff first and the academics second. Unfortunately, the administration at large universities encourage this by emphasizing the "amenities arms race" - climbing walls, campus beautification, etc. - and creating incentives for students to de-prioritize their studies.I wasn't trying to lecture you. I was just disagreeing with the social experience that's all Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Atlsport 1,844 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Load up on condomsThis.You gonna meet young females of every nationality (Latino, Asian, Middle Eastern, etc.). Don't turn down booty from any of them. But beware cuz there are still many young females who go to college for the sole purpose of findin' a husband. You don't want to graduate with a diploma in one hand and a wedding ring on the other.LOL! Those guys obviously do not know about SPSU, it's an engineering college. They probably share the same saying as UGA on their athletics and Ga Tech on their coeds, "How bout them dogs." SPSU is not a party school, their applicants have some of the highest SAT/ACT scores in GA. Ratio of M to F students is very lopsided. Great school though.IF you can make it happen, buy your text books online and not from the college book store. At the end of the semester, sell them online, not to the college book store. Save yourself THOUSANDS over 4 years.This is right as far as avoiding the campus book store, but rent your texts online its even cheaper. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Zodiac 858 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 LOL! Those guys obviously do not know about SPSU, it's an engineering college. They probably share the same saying as UGA on their athletics and Ga Tech on their coeds, "How bout them dogs." SPSU is not a party school, their applicants have some of the highest SAT/ACT scores in GA. Ratio of M to F students is very lopsided. Great school though.This is right as far as avoiding the campus book store, but rent your texts online its even cheaper.Don't rent, it's a scam, they'll look for anything wrong with the book and then charge you full price for it. Buy used texts and then resale them Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bill Brasky 5,472 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Attend class, that's over half the battle. Make sure your professors know who you are as well that way they'll be more inclined to give you the benefit if there is ever a problem. Plan out study time during the weeks you don't have exams, it's pretty easy to go a week here or there without having to do anything other than attend class so studying will keep the material fresh.Don't listen to these people telling you to avoid greek life, there are plenty of great people in fraternities/sororities that balance out some of the douchier people. There are douches that aren't greek as well. At least attending some of the rush week events will give you a chance to meet people even if you don't join. There are also service based organizations you can join that will help you to meet new people.Take advantage of your schools libraries and computer labs to get work done, it can be easier to stay focused when you're out of your dorm room or apartment away from distractions. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
young mr. grace 270 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Here's a very useful website to help you decide which professors to take:http://www.ratemyprofessors.com/I wish they had a website like that years ago when I was at Georgia State. My experience was that most freshamn classes were taught by part-time graduate assistants. Some of them were good but most of them were beyond terrible. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Leon Troutsky 26,686 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Here's a very useful website to help you decide which professors to take:http://www.ratemyprofessors.com/I wish they had a website like that years ago when I was at Georgia State. My experience was that most freshamn classes were taught by part-time graduate assistants. Some of them were good but most of them were beyond terrible. Terrible website. Very outdated for most universities/colleges. "Hotness" of the professor is not a quality you should consider when looking at classes to take. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bill Brasky 5,472 Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 So AcworthFalcFan is ugly... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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