Rave Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Well, I received child support papers today. Apparantly 6 years ago an ex of mine had a child. A little baby girl. I had no idea. Now today I find out that I may be a father like this...really? This had got to be the worst possible way to find out.My court date is in 2 weeks and the first thing Im going to have them do is a paternity test. If it comes out that Im the dad shell have A LOT of explaining to do....que Ricky... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaintsFanInLA Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Wow. How tasteless? There really should be mandatory paternity tests for ALL pregnancies in the US.I personally know of cases where either the mother lied TO HER HUSBAND about the child's paternity or was herself unsure of who the father was and just picked the most convenient guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Borat Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Wow. How tasteless? There really should be mandatory paternity tests for ALL pregnancies in the US.I personally know of cases where either the mother lied TO HER HUSBAND about the child's paternity or was herself unsure of who the father was and just picked the most convenient guy.I've always thought similarly. If you've got nothing to hide, you shouldn't have a problem with a state-mandated test. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethanga62890 Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Wait.......You got laid?Now this i have to hear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rave Posted January 31, 2013 Author Share Posted January 31, 2013 Wait.......You got laid?Now this i have to hear.The year was 1908... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYG4 Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 (edited) Rave has a kid?Don't let her be a Cowboy fan Rave, At least give her that much. Edited January 31, 2013 by NYG4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rave Posted January 31, 2013 Author Share Posted January 31, 2013 Rave has a kid?Don't let her be a Cowboy fan Rave, At least give her that much.Ill be happy if she's a Bulldog. That's all I ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperAINTSfan Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Ill be happy if she's a Bulldog. That's all I ask. You had sex with a dog? jk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Falcon Man™ Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SyCo Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 You had sex with a dog? jklmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Des-pool Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 This thread is full of Charlie Sheen win...and wow Rave...just, wow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaintRay Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 www.jerryspringer.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trouble Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Take the test before you say or do anything. She is likely coming for child support next. I hate to say it. But that could be here reasoning for telling you at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big_L Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Yep, I've dealt with this before. I know in TX you have the option of taking a DNA test prior to signing any child support papers, do it. Once you sign and start paying you are considered the father, and it takes an act of Congresss to overturn it, even with DNA proof. Something about the parent child bond. I am paying child support on a 19 year old, even though my divorce decree states 18. Why? Because he failed to pass a grade in high school. So I am held accountable, even though he lives with his mama... GO figure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaintsFanInLA Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Take the test before you say or do anything. She is likely coming for child support next. I hate to say it. But that could be here reasoning for telling you at all.Did you read the OP? Because in it he says that he received child support papers and that's how he found out about the kid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaintRay Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Latex gentlemen.....latex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trouble Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Did you read the OP? Because in it he says that he received child support papers and that's how he found out about the kid.I missed that. Find out if she is married or living with someone else. Might wanna call a lawyer. 2 weeks doesnt give you much time. You might need to get a extension. But you can also see what your legal rights are in your state. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willy Mo Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 sounds like shes in it for the money. good luck with your situation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recceice Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Child support agencies are third in the "People you don't f with" list. Right behind the IRS and Mafia. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big_L Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Child support agencies are third in the "People you don't f with" list. Right behind the IRS and Mafia.No doubt. You cannot win with them, unless you flee to a non extradition country. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trouble Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Thats why i said lawyer up, 2 weeks doesn't leave much time to prepare a defense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trouble Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 I would also try and track her and see what she is upto. Like is she married (that could be important if they live together.) also just see if she lives with a man.What id be scared of is them back tracking 6 years of no support. I knew a guy whos girl left the state and he was in another country in the merchant marines. he came back to find out she filed papers and he didn't get them. The state of cali wanted like 50 grand back support and it went up every month.It might be something simple you can work out with her though. Some states i think you have to file papers if you are applying for state aid like food stamps. If thats the case maybe you all can talk through it. But since she served papers already i doubt that. But might be worth a try. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frankyfine Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 The most amazing things in all of this is:The woman would admit to EN/RAVE even having sex with her. She should forgo any monetary value just so she does not have to admit thisAnd that the good Lord would ever allow EN/RAVE to procreate!So what you are saying is that you think you are good at judging what dudes are good or not good to admit having sex with.okey dokey, smokey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dago 3.0 Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Thats why i said lawyer up, 2 weeks doesn't leave much time to prepare a defense.thisa lawyer will be able to get some sort of delay or injunction pending a paternity test and check to see if she is married Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rave Posted January 31, 2013 Author Share Posted January 31, 2013 Take the test before you say or do anything. She is likely coming for child support next. I hate to say it. But that could be here reasoning for telling you at all.She didnt tell me, the child support papers did... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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